We all grew up with our parents instilling the importance of treating others as we would like to be treated. In a very simple way that remains constant. What changes are the circumstances we find ourselves in when exercising this rule.

The thing to be aware of is that this sentiment swings both ways. I find myself sometimes inspired by someone’s energy, receptivity and consideration- that is when I internalize those attributes I admire to pass on those good feelings.

On the other hand, sometimes people let you down, or don’t handle situations in a way that resonates with you. During those times, I like to step outside of the situation and learn from it. I think to myself, “I would never treat someone that way!”- but would or have I? This is where the learning takes place. You must challenge yourself to not harbor resentment or bitter feelings, but rather to turn the experience into motivation for your actions going forward.

Empathy is a powerful thing, and having stood in the shoes of the person on the receiving end of your actions,you can tap into how you felt and what you vowed to do differently. We don’t have control over other people, but we do have control of ourselves and our personal evolution- that golden rule is playing somewhere in the background of our minds and can be a useful tool.