Sometimes you just need someone to tell you the truth- no sugar coating and no stretching to see something they don’t. It may feel harsh- but it is the best thing for you.

And if it comes from a good friend or a respected colleague you can believe it. What makes this hard is that you have to be secure enough in yourself to initiate or receive this kind of feedback.

The good news is, when you do, you grow. And you know what they say, two minds are better than one… and so on.

For me, these kinds of exchanges are becoming increasingly important and I am starting to wonder how I went through life thus far without so many of them. Be honest with yourself and with the people in your life- it is amazing how powerful and useful it can be.